Last night we had a thunder storm. My German Shepherd was hanging out on the bed with my daughter and me, panting so furiously it felt as if there were other people on the bed with us doing things that shouldn't be witnessed by an almost eight year old. The whole bed was shaking from the repercussions from Sahsa panting. She was very anxious about the storm.Though not quite as anxious as my eight-year-old Doberman who had curled himself up into a ball so tight he more resembled a chihuahua than a ninety pound dobie!
Typically Sasha barks at thunder, demanding it to stop. Rocko, the Doberman, hides (usually under my desk). Two very different personalities; one confrontational, one not. Both scared.
I told my daughter to be calm, relax herself, and Sasha would start to relax as well. Dogs pick up on human emotions and tend to reflect what you are feeling - both good and bad. We calmed down and so did the Shepherd; her panting slowed and she was able to relax.
For some reason, while this was happening, I starting to think about the relationship between this scenario and working with clients and customers (I know, my mind works in strange ways, but it's not as big a leap as you might think). In stressful times, when a client becomes anxious or upset, remaining calm is the best way to keep him or her calm too. If you also get upset, the emotions will only escalate and your client will not feel reassured.
Relax, breath, support each other. With the calm comes solutions!
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